“Oh, my sister isn’t wealthy–she just lives vicariously through the wealthy people around her.” Those were the words my sister used to describe me and my life. When she recited them to me, I must admit I was a bit halted both in thought and words! I wasn’t sure if I should be offended or not–I decided to let it go.
Yes, I have been spending time in multi million dollar lifestyles for over 20 years now.
Upon moving away from my humble beginnings in Detroit, I magically wound up in Malibu. I started training, massaging, and house-sitting for all kinds of people in Malibu–celebrities, moms, dads, producers, attorneys, musicians, actors, etc. Not all of their lifestyles were multi million dollar, but they seemed to have way more than I ever imagined myself having.
Today, as I led a group of hikers along the stretch of Westward beach that is lined with magnificent homes, I described one of the settings of a weekly massage client I had for about a year.
She lived with that beach as her back yard. The balcony where I massaged her was so glorious. You couldn’t see the sand or the parking lot below, you could only see the blue sky and ocean. All you could smell was the ocean breeze–it was so breathtaking and breathgiving–all at once.
People always ask me, “aren’t you envious and resentful when you’re in their space?”
Honestly, no–I almost felt as if I were part owner of the space. Heck, I got to be there every week and enjoy the space. Yes, there were times I wished I could spend more time–just chillin and relaxing, but for the most part, I was in bliss.
The first place I lived in Malibu was on a private horse ranch.
The owners weren’t millionaires, but they had a property worth millions with 7 horses that made my childhood dreams come true. The experiences I was able to live out there on that ranch were nothing short of miraculous.
My landlord saw the thrill and desire I had to learn how to ride so she graciously took me to horse clinics and trainings–one of them with the incomparable Ray Hunt! I created a bond between one of the horses that was so warm and wonderful, words cannot describe the love I felt for that horse. The most thrilling feeling was the love the horse felt for me–that was a warm and palpable force!
Yes, I have trained and massaged some of the biggest names in Hollywood.
Two of my neighbors are A-list actors who can play any role they want because they are who they are. I am surrounded by abundance and wealth everywhere I go. I take care of homes that are so magnificent and others that are humble in comparison.
Am I living vicariously through them? I’m not sure.
What I am noticing, though, is that the more time I spend lingering around this lifestyle, the more it becomes reachable, believable, possible.
I am vibrating vicariously! Why not right? I am in it and around it. By being in it, it becomes more a part of my vibration which helps me to maintain that vibration, which then must manifest in my life.
I have a friend who grew up in a very wealthy family. She will always vibrate with the abundant energy she has, that’s just what she knows. She knows nothing of lack or not enough and, fortunately, she will never know that because she has been trained to EXPECT wealth to be hers endlessly.
No, I boldly say to you, I have no doubt that this is all training for me. I have been training my vibration for all these years and it simply must mean I am getting closer to the vibration of full and effortless abundance. As I know, everything is energy.
We are all vibrating a frequency out into our environment.
The more time I spend with this wealth and abundance surrounding me, the more I will vibrate that signal and I won’t be able to help but match it!
When we raise our vibrations, we raise our ability to connect with the universe…
In case you haven’t noticed by now, I am a believer in vibration and the law of attraction.
I take my time and enjoy my life, I’m not a huge go-getter but when I’m inspired to go for something, I go for it because I’m listening to my inner guidance–that powerful place of presence.
I’m not in a hurry and being in a hurry is why most people will never experience their greatest desires because they’ve got far too much resistance built up.
This is an amazing clip from an Abraham Workshop–describes vibration well.